Tuesday, May 3, 2011

A Whole Half

So to add a little spice to this half birthday remembrance, I planned on listing some of the reasons, I 'half' love Luke. You know some of those little idiosyncrasies he has, that we all have.  But then I realized that is what makes us, US.  No matter how undesirable some of Luke's traits, quirks or behaviors may be, they make Luke, Luke.  I wouldn't have him any other way.

So that was my first and last attempt to think about half loving someone.  Half loving someone is much like digging half a hole, or finding half a puddle--they don't exist.  A hole is a hole.  A puddle is a puddle.  Love is love.

Luke is 9 and a HALF!
Happy Half Birthday.


PS-This time around, I delivered the 'other half' of the cake to my friend Lori, who in the last half birthday post asked 'What do you do with the other half of the cake?'  Just sayin' it was worth the askin'...

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Monday, May 2, 2011

A Little Late

When Mike's mom called him back in January and asked if Megan, Luke and I could come visit them in DC, she gave him the dates for us to be there.  One of Mike's first responses was, "It's Easter, Tiffany probably won't go for it."  After, when Mike called me telling me about the offer to visit DC he timidly gave me the dates, "Nope, won't do it!"  was my immediate response.

Of course, that is all old news now.  I was away from home for my very favorite holiday of the year.  I stressed more than anyone needs to know, and shed plenty of tears.  But, it all ended up just fine...

My husband who typically leaves most traditions to me, made sure the little kids did our daily 'Week before Easter' pictures and scriptures and my dear husband who usually blissfully sleeps every holiday eve away, did a perfect job of making sure Easter baskets were set out and everything just right for the Easter Bunny to make his traditional visit.

Mike appeased my incessant reminders and requests with photos, text messages and phone calls of the morning.  He even arranged for Ellie to have her hair done by our dear neighbor Kari before church, so Ellie didn't have orphan hair contrasting with her beautiful new Easter dress.

I missed our traditional Easter meal, I missed seeing the Snickers trail from the stairs to the baskets, I missed watching our ward choir perform, I missed dyeing eggs.  I missed. I missed. I missed.
(From the looks of it, I'm glad I missed the photo shoot...)


On Easter Sunday, my kids and I joined with Laurie, Steve, Kristin and Emily to do a musical number in Laurie and Steve's ward there.  As all seven of us sang the chorus to the song, the words, "I know He lives..." touched my heart and I knew that really, that is what matters most about Easter Sunday.  Whether or not my little family was together, we know He lives.
And that is Easter.

Saturday, April 30, 2011

The City...Alone

Well, when I say alone, I mean just Megan, Luke and me!  I think Steve was a little apprehensive to allow me to roam the city without his expertise, following the recent 'Metro didn't stop at our station' episode.  But Luke was dying to visit the National Zoo, Megan was interested in going along with the plan, and nobody else wanted to go.  I jumped out of Steve's van at the zoo entrance with full confidence I would do just fine in the city alone.


After visiting Hogle Zoo in Salt Lake City for the last few years where the animal population has severely dropped, I had high expectations for the National Zoo.  I was somewhat disappointed.  Where exactly do the animals at zoos live?

(Perhaps I will one day consider a career change to a zoo-keeper in hopes of actually seeing some zoo animals.  On second thoughts, I really don't like animals, so it may not be a reality.)

The kids were absolutely thrilled with the free piggy banks Capital One Bank was giving out at a vendor booth at the zoo.  Complete with stickers and jewels to decorate the piggy banks with, we left with four! (The generous lady said, 'Take as many as you'd like."  Fortunately I convinced Luke that Drew really didn't care if we brought him one home or no, so we only had to squeeze four, rather than five into our bag!)

I'm sure all the security guards at the x-ray machines later in the day, found the tourist bag with four awkward sized piggy banks squeezed in, an interesting tourist necessity.  (We won't even mention the efforts it took to fit them into our bags to fly across the country the next day)  Just what I always pictured Washington DC souvenir highlights would be--a free gift from a bank marketing ploy.

And now look, I've talked more about the free piggy banks than the National Zoo!  That's kind of how the zoo was--with the exception of seeing a Panda bear, and getting this great shot, the zoo wasn't exactly my favorite part of my Washington DC trip.  But Luke loved it and Megan tolerated it, so it was worth the visit.

I have to say with the exception of getting a slight case of vertigo on this very tall escalator, our travels with the Washington DC Metro (including have to switch lines) went extremely well.

We enjoyed eating ice cream from the street vendors, even if I could probably have paid for our flight to DC with the amount of money I spent on the ice cream.  We won't mention that Megan, in an attempt to eat her Spongebob ice cream as humanely as possible, ended up with Spongebob, making a crash landing onto the sweltering DC sidewalk.

Steve called me during the afternoon, to see if we wanted him to come and pick him us up so we could visit the National Cathedral with the rest of the clan.  I asked my kids what they wanted to do, and they both answered the question before I even finished asking it.  Unanimously, we decided that the drive-by the National Cathedral on our way to church the day before was enough for this trip!

We enjoyed a second visit to the Air and Space Museum with far less people and much lower inside temperature than the previous time.  We were each touched at the Holocaust Museum with the children's exhibit, 'Daniel's Story.'  We dutifully visited the National Archives, as we knew we couldn't possibly come up with a suitable explanation to give Laurie & Steve if we didn't.  Of course the old documents were quite grand to see, but I don't think Luke and I appreciated them as we should have...

With the high temperatures outside, and even higher humidity we refreshed by the fountains in the Sculpture Garden before exploring more of the city sites.

Later that evening, the day ended with Luke insisting on joining the throngs of tourists capturing this shot:

Then we watched the sunset over the Lincoln Memorial.

All in all, I did a grand job finding my way around the city of Washington DC!
(Well-if you don't count the four-six security/police officers around the city that  I had to ask to find the Metro Station to return home at the end of the day.  But really, no one but Megan, Luke and me really need to know that...)

Friday, April 29, 2011

For Better or For Worse

(I warned you I couldn't stay quiet for long!-But what else am I going to do at 4 something AM!?)

Dear Prince William and (Should be Princess) Kate:

What a HAPPY, HAPPY day--and it is only 4:24am!!
I've spent the last hour or so, smiling as I watch the events of your blessed wedding.

Oh what a grand occasion.

I kept thinking about the scrapbook that lies carefully in my cedar chest at the foot of my bed--that my dear Auntie Sheila gave me back in 1981.  It was my role as a proper little English school girl to vigilantly keep newspaper clippings, postcards, and even a Buckingham Palace stamped letter from your dear mother, Princess Di herself.  I have a commemorative spoon and a beloved make-up bag marking the special July 1981 day.

Fast forward thirty years!
It is your wedding day!!  I can remember excitedly watching the television screen as your mother presented you to the country (and world!) outside the hospital doors, almost twenty nine years ago.  And now you are getting married!

I don't have a scrapbook, I have no newspaper clippings, I have no commemorative spoon.  And I certainly have no make-up bag  to remember the occasion.  But, I did dutifully awaken (before my alarm even!) and with a huge smile on my face (and I admit a few tears in my eyes) am watching your special, special day.  Although I am sorely disappointed that you couldn't overcome protocol briefly and 'Kiss The Bride' at the traditional time.

I loved your little brother's sneak peek at the bride, I loved your determined and traditional not seeing the bride until she was by your side, I loved the simple vows, and I loved your nervous smiles.  I loved the presence of love in your eyes.  And, I loved the thought I had, that of course your mother was there in spirit.

What beauty, grandness and patriotism present on this historic day.  And whether or not the bizarre regulations of royalty grant Kate the official role of 'Princess' or not, she's pretty darn close to one.

What a delightful morning!

My heartfelt congratulations and best wishes go out to you.  It seemed like the perfect occasion and I am so happy to have been a part of it.  I briefly question the craziness of waking up at such an hour, but really, how could I not have?  It is my continued duty of a once-proper-English-school-girl.

I must also take this moment to send my sincere apologies for my husbands rudeness for such a grand occasion.  My dear husband lay in bed next to me throughout the whole event, with snores sometimes overcoming the sounds of the royal music.  I am so sorry.  He doesn't understand one bit the grandness of the occasion.

And now as the sounds of 'God Save The Queen' ring out through my television, I must end this letter to sing along.  (On the bright side, my singing should cease the snoring.)

Congratulations Your Royal Highnesses!  I'll look forward to the 'Kiss The Bride' scene on the balcony in just a little bit.

Best wishes and much love,
A Former English School Girl

Thursday, April 28, 2011

No Resting

I need to get back to real life, and though I have plenty of things mulling about in my head, I have other more urgent things to get to.  And not because I think anyone is still interested in our trip, but for a permanent family record, I'm going to post the rest of our trip pictures for the next few days.

I'll be back before too long--after all, I always lost the game "Who can be quietest the longest" when I was younger.  I would still lose at it today...

DC Trip-Sunday, April 24th:

Of course our Easter Sunday did not start out with our typical Easter traditions, and that's okay.  We attended the Chevy Chase Singles Ward that Laurie & Steve regularly attend as part of their missionary duties.  The seven of us, in our family clan, sang a musical number in Sacrament Meeting.  Of course, Luke was not excited about this, but I was proud of both of my kids' efforts.  For Luke, the singing was made up for by the fact, we only had to attend the Sacrament Meeting portion of church as obviously there was no Primary (children's class).

Arlington National Cemetary-Luke should know every detail there is to know about this national site, if you consider the 5,671 questions he was asking either Grandpa Steve or me.  But considering I was the one answering the majority of the questions... well it's no surprise he didn't come away too well educated.

Iwo Jima Memorial-Apparently there is a rumor that there are thirteen hands on the memorial.  Although six men would accurately produce twelve hands not thirteen, it is not unrealistic to consider that the thirteenth hand could well have been the hand of God.  Grandpa said that he has tried his best to count thirteen hands, but in all the times he has visited the memorial, he has never been able to count thirteen.  Of course Luke upon hearing this 'legend', proceeded to count the hands.  After his third try in less than five minutes, Luke is convinced he counted thirteen hands.  (FYI-according to Snopes, there are only twelve hands on the memorial.)

The Pentagon 9/11 Memorial was very touching.  It was quite simple yet full of symbolism and meaning.  Each victim from both the building and the plane have a symbolic memorial marked by the year of their birth.  Megan was touched by the memorial of the young child born in 1998--the same year she was, that was a passenger in that fateful flight.

The beautiful Washington DC temple.  While I have thoroughly enjoyed the history and richness of the country these past few days, I felt 'at home' as my kids played amidst the temple visitor center exhibits full of familiar scripture stories and scenes depicting our knowledge and beliefs.  We are truly blessed, in more ways than one!


Wednesday, April 27, 2011

An Ordinary Day

Having been gone from home for a week and missing my young children and Mike desperately, I was very excited to return home.  Our plane sat on the runway at Washington National Airport last night for two hours before we took off, which of course made our arrival into Utah much later than planned.  Combine that delay with a very turbulent flight, a nervous traveler, severe nausea and the constant pondering of how quickly I could possibly be meeting my Maker, I was thrilled to see Mike standing grinning, just outside the security checkpoint when we came around the corner.   I was sad my children were at home asleep in bed.

This morning started about 6:37am, with all of our children congregating on our bed.  I felt like I needed extra arms to hold and hug the three kids who didn't want to leave my side.  Thank goodness Megan and Luke had seen enough of me this last week, or the arm shortage would have been much more urgent.

This morning in the morning chaos to get kids dressed, fed, and out the door.  I paused as I listened to the familiar sounds of Luke practicing the piano, I had more patience than usual during the morning routine of "I need more juice" or "I want another piece of toast" or "Where is my..."  Amidst all of the hussle and bussle of this morning's typical before-school-day, I was reminded of one of my favorite books and certainly my very favorite 'You Tube Video' based off of the book, 'The Gift of an Ordinary Day.' (The video is a MUST see!)

Yesterday at this time I was on a private tour of the Senate Office and White House, today I am back to my ordinary life.  I have spent the last few days visiting some of the most historical and important places in American History, today I am trying to go through all the emails I put in my 'Action' folder this past week, I'm trying to get all the laundry done, I want to upload and sort through my photos, my phone keeps ringing with people who now know I'm home, yet I'm still trying to find time for reading Chick-A-Chick-A-Boom-Boom type books, child holding and extra hugs.

The sights, sounds, lifestyles and surroundings of the last week seem quite magical compared to my ordinary life, but the repeated thought going through my mind all morning has been, "This is an ordinary day.  This is my ordinary life."  And guess what?  I wouldn't trade it.  (At least not right now, I may in a few more days...)

Even with my toddler's (new in the last week) independence to do everything himself (including removing wet/soiled diapers), and Joshua crying because his towel fell off of his wet naked body, and then a sandwich being deemed inedible because it was cut into fourths instead of being left whole, and toys being thrown out of the open family room window, the events have solidified the beautiful theory of 'ordinary days.'

As I began typing, Joshua was holding a 'bouquet' of suckers he received from the Easter Bunny.  While Drew naps, I told Joshua he was to have quiet time for one hour.  He is currently on sucker number three, I'm attempting to turn a blind eye, after all sucker eating is a quiet activity.

Quiet time is officially over according to the four year old--as all of the suckers have been consumed.

Welcome home.
Back to the ordinary I go.

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

Random

In no particular order, here are some random thoughts and impressions of my trip.

#1  Bless Luke's heart, he has taken in a lot of museums, memorials, monuments and history!  For the most part, his attitude has been great.  But for him, forget history, just give him the grounds of the Washington DC temple to explore, the animals at Mount Vernon, or some climbing rocks of the beaten path at Gettysburg.    All of which (bridges, muddy swamps, rocks and animals) he can find just a few miles from home!

#2  My mother-in-law has visited Washington DC many, many times.  She has also lived here for a few years throughout her life.  However, not a drive goes by that she doesn't pull out her camera and continue to capture the beauty of the city around her.  It is perhaps one of her top favorite places in the world, and though she probably has albums full of DC pictures from years past, she appreciates each sight and moment as if it is her first time.  It really is very inspirational to see her love of the history, beauty and culture around her.

#3  What a brilliant idea to have a personal chauffeur.  Steve has seen this city just as much as Laurie, and drops us off at entrances and then circles the blocks, takes a nap, or parks and comes to find us.  Even though I'm really not much of a traveler and I don't foresee too many trips in my near future, I may still have to look into a personal driver for my day-to-day errands.  How perfect would that be to never have to walk into Walmart in the rain, or return a cart to a cart return at Costco, or carry toddlers from parking lots to buildings.    A personal driver!  I could get quite used to that idea.

#4  I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but after spending a week in these luscious green surroundings, the barrenness of the Utah desert is seeming less and less appealing to return home to.

#5  I am more than anxious to see my three youngest children and my dear husband.  I have never been away from any of my kids for more than three days, and I miss them and Mike something terrible.  I will need a reminder of how much I miss them right now next week, when rest assured, they will all return to their proper roles of making me CRAZY.

#6  So, as you read this I will be returning home to Utah across the friendly skies.  Wish me luck!
xxx

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